Everyone has his or her ideal man or woman. As a teenager, I used to have a long list of the character, traits and personality of a person I wanted to marry. As I went in and out of relationship, those qualifications were summarized into these three conditions:
1. Someone who can accept me with the complete package of me (Someone I can accept wholeheartedly)
2. Someone who can love truly (Someone I can love truly) and
3. Someone who can be my partner, my "katuwang" for life (Someone whom I can be his "katuwang" for life)
The Feast talk on His + Her, gave me a refresher on how to deal with my "single for now" status. I reflected on the following specific conditions I'm looking for a man to marry:
1. We should share the same values:
And what do I value?
a. Faith in God
b. Good and healthy relationship with the people around (family, friends and colleagues)
c. Giving one's best at work
2. Good character and right kind of attitude
3. Responsible
4. Respectful
5. With clear goals and ambitions, and knows how to attain them
6. Can do a real talk
7. With good sense of humor
8. Walks the talk
9. Good provider
10. Serves God
11. Willing to lend a hand for the needy
12. Sweet
13. Kind-hearted
14. Honest
15. Loyal
16. Loves music
17. Healthy living
18. Do ways to improve himself
19. Happy to be with
20. We enjoy each other's company.
The joy of finding each other will eventually happen. For now, I'm making myself busy becoming the Ms. Right God intended me to be. We'll be seeing each other soon. God put a hope in this heart of mine. Somewhere, somehow, I know you are also thinking of me, as much as I am thinking of you.
1. Someone who can accept me with the complete package of me (Someone I can accept wholeheartedly)
2. Someone who can love truly (Someone I can love truly) and
3. Someone who can be my partner, my "katuwang" for life (Someone whom I can be his "katuwang" for life)
The Feast talk on His + Her, gave me a refresher on how to deal with my "single for now" status. I reflected on the following specific conditions I'm looking for a man to marry:
1. We should share the same values:
And what do I value?
a. Faith in God
b. Good and healthy relationship with the people around (family, friends and colleagues)
c. Giving one's best at work
2. Good character and right kind of attitude
3. Responsible
4. Respectful
5. With clear goals and ambitions, and knows how to attain them
6. Can do a real talk
7. With good sense of humor
8. Walks the talk
9. Good provider
10. Serves God
11. Willing to lend a hand for the needy
12. Sweet
13. Kind-hearted
14. Honest
15. Loyal
16. Loves music
17. Healthy living
18. Do ways to improve himself
19. Happy to be with
20. We enjoy each other's company.
The joy of finding each other will eventually happen. For now, I'm making myself busy becoming the Ms. Right God intended me to be. We'll be seeing each other soon. God put a hope in this heart of mine. Somewhere, somehow, I know you are also thinking of me, as much as I am thinking of you.
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